connections/freedom/hope

You are of course not responsible for every bad thing that happens to you, but in case you are, what do you do? You start complaining and try to blame your failure on others. Do you think that you can't do anything wrong, or maybe you are too ashamed to admit that you're actually not perfect? What's my point? You need to face reality. Start seeing the world how it is instead of how you want it to be. Not everyone is good or trustworthy, in fact, there are many people who will take advantage of you if you believe otherwise. When someone disagrees with you, they have the right to do that, and the only proper reaction to their disagreement is to accept it. What matters are facts, not feelings, so don't be afraid to speak up because you might offend someone. Remember, it's up to you how you react. Will you get angry or upset, or will you just move on with your life? Obviously, it doesn't mean that you should go and call people names just because you have the right to do it; it's a matter of being a decent human being. But if you try to forbid it, you're actually against free speech. We live in a civilized society, we have all the things people in some regions of the world could only dream of. It doesn't mean that you should take a blame for a tragedy that happens thousands of miles away, in a country you probably have never heard of, and that you have nothing to do with. But you should definitely ask yourself - do I have any real reason to complain? Or do I simply expect people to treat me better because in my own mind and only in my mind I deserve to be pat on the head with a smile? No, you deserve to be slapped in the face. I don't expect any of you to believe or like what I'm saying because I know that people hate being told what to do. Yet you, by the way, follow trends, your support or criticism of the famous and politicians is based on how media portraits them, and it's your point of view that others should share because of course, it has no loopholes. All I'm asking for is that you could sometimes, just sometimes, think that you might be wrong and that absolutely everyone makes mistakes. As soon as you realize that your life will become way easier and less bitter.